Hello, readers. I hope you all had a wonderful Thanksgiving spent with ones you care about. I’ve always found the idea that it’s on this one day that people are supposed to pause and reflect on what they are thankful for a little off. I mean, Thanksgiving is only one day out of the entire year. Why can’t we be thankful every day?
As I was thinking over what to post about what I am most thankful this year, I decided that instead of just one post, on one day, giving a cursory list of what I’m thankful for, I would give thanks each day for one year. Spotlight one thing each day that I am thankful for.
The kernel of this idea came after spending the morning Black Friday shopping. Although I had posted about how ridiculous Black Friday is with its hours, I found myself shopping this morning because (a) I had to drop my mom off at her work at midnight, so I was up anyway and in the neighborhood of a store whose specials I had been eying, and (b) due to the fact that I had to drop my mom off at such an insane hour, I was up and would not have been able to go back to sleep. Well, after a morning of shopping and convincing myself that at least this way I took care of most of my holiday shopping, I found myself sitting in the car, waiting for my mom to come out of work. As I sat in the car, my eyes seriously hating me for how little I slept, I thought a thought many think on a daily basis: I need to win the lottery. Only instead of casually thinking this, I said “Okay, how would my life and my family’s life be different should I actually win the lottery?” The vision unfolded from my subconscious. My parents quitting their jobs because they would be financially independent. New, or nicely used, cars to replace our current ones which make unhealthy sounds every time we turn them on, and even more unhealthy sounds when we drive them. Moving into a bigger house. Booking trips without budget as one of the concerns. Student loans paid off with no need to take out more to cover expenses that attending grad school will incur.
It’s a vision I have had a lot of time to think about, from how I would feel matching my numbers to the winning numbers. About how my family would react when I tell them the news. About what we would do first. I thought about all of these things, but most importantly I thought for the first time about how my life would actually change.
The answer I realized was that my life itself would not change. Sure, it would look a little different, but I would still be me. The lottery can’t change my life, not truly change it. It would make some things a lot easier, but true change comes from the individual.
My goal with my year of thankfulness, or Project Thankful for short, is to change my mindset. That instead of worrying about what I don’t have, or how life would be different “if,” or about winning the lottery – instead of all that, I focus on what I do have, not the “ifs,” and taking stock of the lottery I already have in my life.
I plan to share my experiences on this blog and one of my other blogs, The Consultant (theconsultantblog.wordpress.com).
As always, thank you, readers. I will always be thankful for your audience.